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      <image:caption>Source: Pew Research Center survey of U.S. adults conducted July 5–17, 2022.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Pick-up artist techniques start with an engaging interaction.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Running is a powerful way to achieve flow state.</image:caption>
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